Child Abuse at Survival Period
When you as a mother or father have to move taking babies,
you should be aware of teaching your child regarding bad touch and good touch. All like to love, show affection and take them close. But which one is a good contact, which is
bad, who will teach? Little girls now become more victims of sexual abuse.
Before our presence, the life of the girls gets destroyed. Parents are also to
be blamed for negligence they do not like to complain. There are also some
distorted menstruating men, who cause the sexual abuse.
Many parents have been victims of sexual assault at a young
age. Of course, you do not want to become such victim as you had at your child
days. So teach the child something good
touch and bad touch. Of course, not only mothers but fathers also help parents
in this regard.
Teach the baby that
she has got the owner of her body and only she keeps the right on that. Try to
make her aware about this from her a17 to 18 months ago. Make them understand
that none has the right to touch her body. Teach the baby that some parts of
her body are private parts. Also make her aware that she has the right to say
no to that who like t touch, kiss or enfold her.
Some so many mothers make various names of the private parts
it is not wrong, but it is also necessary for the baby to know the exact name
of her private parts. So, use the proper language for mentioning the private
parts.
Make conversion with the child in such a way that is easily
understandable to her. Don’t express fear or pressure to make her known about
the private parts and bad touch. Of course, it does not matter to teach them
with having fun but try to behave such that they can not get hesitation to talk
to you relating to her private and sensitive parts. Talk to her with easy and
straightforward way, suppose you can talk to her about the matter while you get
engaged to give her bath or diaper.
Maintain the swimsuit rule. A good number of kids move to
learn swimming from childhood. Guess them realize that the part that is covered
not to show other or if someone likes to touch those parts she should inform
you. Those do not learn swimming they are to be taught through marking the
garments that the parts of the body covered with cloth are private. But for any case it is found that those like
to abuse do not touch at first the individual parts, may be initially they
start with touching the back part, hair, this place does not remain covered, so
swimming suit rule is not suitable here. So, teach the baby to inform you about
any touch that makes her uneasy. At the same time make her realize that there
is nothing to hesitate to tell those to her father, brother and close family
members.
At the same manner teach her to inform you if someone likes
to touch her face and lip. But sometimes it is needed to touch her private
parts suppose for medical care then you also make her realize that some needed
touch to those parts is not bad. Child care is a vital aspect regarding prepper
gears; the same way to protect kids from being abused is one of your prime
prepping matters during the survival situation.
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